In this world, each girl has her life travel dream whether to Paris where she can get that romantic night with her lover or to take a tour in the city of love, finding herself and discovering the world out there or spread peace and share her message with the people all around the world. No matter where they will be heading to they need to make it happen, but things don’t go as we wish for. Traveling was easy back in the days, now you need money and better nationality to go where ever you want. For me, things were bitter better as I went through all the places I dreamed of alone and with my partner too.
I went to Switzerland where I rode the magnificent train that travels above thousands of meters to have the spectacular view of icy mountains, I went hiking in Portgus, I traveled to Turkey and enjoyed its splendid nature and unforgettable food, I even got to live in New York for a couple of months, I wandered around Amsterdam streets late at night with my partner to feel that cold breeze and enjoy the quite and abandoned streets.
I enjoyed every second of each journey which lasts for no more than 10 minutes, Do you find it cynical or creepy? Well for me it was the only thing that could give me joy or take me out of that bleak world I was living in. For an Egyptian girl, life is full of misery, contempt, humiliation, limitation and lots of hassles I can make a list with. Planning for on budget trip with only ticket and the least of expenses you can imagine will cost me much that I couldn’t even afford.
I escaped to my own world where I can live what I dream of, but it was so pathetic it let me fall in that deep hole of the unrealistic place I wasn’t getting anything from. I woke up and I decided to have a more realistic dream, one that lasts till the end of my life, I started with goal plan to figure what I want and how far I want to go, I got myself out of that victim mentality, I worked instead of complaining, I knew that waiting and welling for things to happen while setting in the corner won’t get me anywhere.
I began with my saving pocket, I started to save for traveling. I worked as hard as I could I didn’t waste a second, I even began to appreciate time more, I wish if my day can be duplicated. I began my own project “my baby” the thing that I proud of the most and I know that I will make it big, I started my own site
Girlsinsights (https://girlsinsights.com/) to inspire women on following their life dreams and get through whatever they face, reaching to every girl is my target, helping each woman to have faith and never let go of what she believes in is my message and I won’t let go so pray for me dears.
Don’t let yourself fall in that hollow, act and don’t wait, I know it may sound hard, but believe in your soul and train your mind on letting go of that poisonous imagination, you are your own therapist no one can understand you but you, Know who you truly are and don’t listen to anyone telling you the opposite, discover your personality, love every little detail of you before minding for anyone else, care for your own journey and make it happen.
Believe me, it is a precious advice from someone who faced depression for five years and came over it by herself, so if you have any question in your mind or need any kind of advice don’t hesitate to reach me, girl, I am always here XxXx.